SPOTLIGHT

Monday, October 31, 2005

What I don't like about Mondays


Waking up on time everyday is a big challenge for me but the task appears much tougher on mondays. Even though you have slept like a log over the weekend but come monday morning you don't feel like getting out of the comfort of your cosy bed.
Well..can't help it, you are bound to experience it and nothing can be done about it. I am not complaining about it.
So your day starts in a grumpy mood, you curse the alarm for missing its ring. After a quick shower and shorter (skipped) breakfast you reach office. Now this is what I dread Mondays for.
You enter office and anyone you run into, in the hallway, at the coffee pot, or whoever walks in your cubicle, the first thing they ask is "How was your weekend?"
Nothing wrong in asking so, infact thanks for your courteousness but it would be appreciated more if you were prepared to listen to the answer. But trust me! Most of them don't have the time to hear your weekend epic tales or are simply not interested. And that irritates me! why ask if you don't want to know.
So you simply give the expected answer "It was good" and return the courtesy with "How was yours?".
You get back "Great!" and oh well! the conversation thankfully ends!



Only your close friends or co-workers would be concerned what you are upto and so instead of it being a monday morning ritual, they would ask you everyday how your previous evening was...

Well....can't help it..When in Rome...Do the Romans!! (Exxxxxxxxaaaccccctly)

Sunday, October 30, 2005

Movie Marathon

Its been a fun and relaxed weekend. I have seen so much of TV and movies that now my eyes hurt as I type this :)
But I am not complaining, movies are like my first love and I enjoy watching them. If the company is perfect, it is like icing to top the cake.
I saw

  • Fightplan - which was decent, the previews had raised the expectation too high probably

  • Choclate - finally completed watching it on saturday; I have been seeing this movie in bits and pieces throughout the week. Strangely enough I disagree with the horrible reviews I had read, I liked it.

  • Kaun Banega Crorepati II (Diwali Special with Parvati and Tulsi) - Disappointed-they answered a question wrong to collect only 6.25 lakhs. I can see some of you with surprised look.. Yes Yes I admit I am a bollywood and tellywood fanatic. I have the episodes with Saif and Preity and Ajay and Kajol too.

  • Russel Peters performance in a club in NYC - This wasn't surely one of his best performances. But some of his jokes CRACKED me up

  • Runaway Bride - Julia Roberts has a million dollar smile.
  • Kal Ho Na Ho (selected watchable scenes) - I know but couldn't help it. No bollywood movie released this weekend, so re-watched some of the memorable scenes from KHNH.


I am waiting for next weekend when two laugh riots hits the screen

  • Akshay and John create their magic in Garam Masala.

  • Shaadi No. 1 with Fardeen, Zayed and Sharman Joshi

  • And then there is Priyadarshan's Kyunki..with Salman and Kareena..


    Which of these are you going to watch first?




Friday, October 28, 2005

Story Tree

Tagged by Thanu


A Journey Begins...

He thought it would be an ordinary journey. Standing behind the pillar he watched the train snort arrogantly into the station. With each snort he was reminded of his grandfather's words "You will fail in the city and return penniless"; with every heavenward whistle, he heard his cousin, "Don't worry. Come here and I will get you a job at the construction site." Now he had a 34-hour journey to prove one of them wrong, and he expected the excitement at the end of the journey. He looked at his ticket once again: compartment S9 berth 23.

He would preserve this ticket. When he would succeed, he would frame and hang it for all to see, as a reminder of the fact that greatness had humble origins, of the day when he set out to seize his destiny. His lips quivered with emotion as he carefully counted the money in his wallet, yet again. Four crisp hundreds and two crumpled fifties. At seventeen, it seemed like a fortune to him. He would carefully plan his expenses. He felt as energetic as the strong breeze that hit his face. He stumbled backward, as the wallet slipped from his hands.

Turag watched it fall, with the fingers of both his hands curled—one gripping the steel bar and the other gripping nothing but air. The wallet settled, the second time it touched the greased stones. It was diminishing in size and moving away from him like an open-mouthed balloon propelled by the gushing air. He knew, well enough, the events that would follow if he pulls the stop-chain. In fact it was a stop-chain that brought a wind of change in his life. Getting off from the thought-train that the stop-chain had evoked, he rushed towards it, with uncurled fingers."

Don't do that." said a voice from behind him. The command in the voice, more than his curiosity, made him stop and turn around. The first thing he noticed was her eyes which also held the finality her voice seemed to convey. He was still staring deep into the depths of her beautiful eyes when he realized that he had been stopped. He closed his eyes for a second, shook his head to clear out the image -as if wiping the slate clean- and reopened them."I drop my wallet.", he said.

Despite shaking his head, he couldn’t free himself from her gaze. She looked straight at him as if worried. He saw strength in her dark eyes, but he also saw sadness in their depths. Furthermore, the dark shadows under her eyes betrayed fatigue. Her face was classically beautiful, betraying little of her age. Guessing the lady’s sari alone cost several times the amount his wallet had contained, his childlike naiveté made him wonder why she seemed so troubled. He thought, ‘Here I am without a penny to my name, and more concerned about the woes of a stranger!’

It was always in his nature to help the needy so he couldn’t walk out from the sadness he saw in her eyes. He stretched forth his hand and said “I’m Hari”. She smiled and replied, Sheila. Hari was not ready to let go of Sheila, he wanted to help her, he wanted to wipe away the sadness and bring a smile back to her face. He stood there helpless, with out a penny to spare but a heart full of feelings. Feelings that even he had never felt before or even knew existed.

Sheila said "There should be no delay! The train must reach Banglore on time". Saying this she walked away to her seat. By then it was already too late for him to do anything. He stood there helpless and dejected. He cursed himself for not having paid heed to his grandfather’s warnings. As much as he was angry at her, his heart yearned to know why was she sad and in a rush to reach on time. She was sitting by the window and looking outside, lost in deep thought. He approached her to get his answers.

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OK...now the not so fun part....Vikram and Arun , I pass it onto you...please let the tree grow...
And who ever else is reading it..help the tree grow...let me know if you are doing it so I can read what shape the story takes...

Thursday, October 27, 2005

Lies at work....

I decided to take half day yesterday as I had the phone interview scheduled for late afternoon. But inorder to get it approved I had to inform my manager and give him a satisfactory excuse. Guess in such cases, the hidden part of my devilious personality comes into foreground. I have been postponing the imminent task of going to the department of motor vehicle (DMV) to get a califonian drivers license. I have a license of the state from where I did my graduation. So I happily cited to everyone in office that I need to go to the DMV and get the license issue sorted out. To be able to look up in the eye and answer the question that I would be asked the next day, I decided to pay the DMV a visit before I got to work in the morning.
It felt nice reaching home before the sun has set for a change but the ordeal, the phone interview was still pending and it made me nervous.

Trust me when I say this, when the interviewer called and I realised she was an *indian*. I knew she was going to give me a tough time and she didnt let me down. I totally fail to understand the mentality of Indians, they simply want to prove that they are more intellectual and more supperior than others. I am not denying any of it, infact I am proud that she is in a commanding position today, but to simply demonstrate that she grilled me with questions and then challenged my answers. So every word I uttered, I had to back it up with an example to justify it. The one hour verbal duel left me exhausted and thirsty. Am I wishing too high, that they asked no questions and hired the person rightaway as he was indian too...Well...had it been an american interviewer, the whole process would have been shorter and smoother. Its either you know an answer or you don't. They never try to lead you to dig your own grave and fall in your own trap.
Anyways, on the whole the screening went decent. I thank all those who wished and please pray that I get to move to the next step in the process.

As ill-luck would have it, I ran into my co-worker at the gas station in the evening. To coverup for the lie about DMV, I had to lie again saying that I didnt have all the documents with me and they asked me to come the next day.

Had to rush to the DMV in the morning, wait in the queue, give the vision test and then the written test..and after all this they say they will mail you the license in 2-3 weeks and my pocket is 25 bucks lighter today..Ughhhh...

Tuesday, October 25, 2005

I am looking for you...

Every where I went my eyes searched for her. Every hispanic lady I saw today I stared endlessly at her trying to figure out if she was the one.

No I wasn't looking for my wife to be..But I blame that wicked lady from yesterday for causing this distress in my life. At the signal light, I peeped in the adjoining car to see if I could spot her. At lunch, I scanned the entire joint to see if she was there happily enjoying her meal. I had to buy groceries after work, so I went to the same store as yesterday, to see if I could catch her conning some other soul. Frankly I don't remember how she looks, to me all looked like her...hahaha...I ending up looking at all of them suspiciously and I am pretty sure that they would have thought of me as someone crazy. And it wasnt about the money, it was all about feeling decieved and cheated. Anyways, Life moves on...

On another note, Its been a couple of weeks, I have started looking for another job. I try to devote some of my spare time after work sending out my resume. A recruiter from one of the dream companies that I had applied to, contacted me today and set up a phone screening for tomorrow afternoon. They only had afternoon slots available, so I couldnt refuse. The issue now is I will have to leave work early tomorrow and have to come up with some excuse.

Life...Why so tough art thou

P.S. If you are reading this...please wish it goes well for me and pray for me

Quote for the day:
Two steps to success in life:
(a) Never disclose everything that you know.
(b)

Monday, October 24, 2005

Duped?

After having my staple veggie burger and fries at Burger King, I was contently walking back to my car. This red SUV stops right in front of me and a lady cries out to me. She was a latin american in her late thirties. Well, Southern California abounds in the mexican population and half of them can only converse in Spanish. You see them every where you go and they think that every one on this planet knows spanish and they start conversing with you in it.
It didnt take me long to pick up "Sorry No Espanol" (Sorry No Spanish) and politely decline if someone threw those alien words at me.
So I was taken by surprise when that lady asked if I knew English (Well I wonder of what origin she thought I was...). She was in tears (almost), looked helpless. My first thoughts were that she probably was lost and needed some directions to a place. But it turned out to be more grave. She said she had gone to the hospital to visit her sister and had forgotten her purse in the car. When she got back, it was Gone. And she was stranded, her credit cards, her cell phone etc all was in her purse. Then she opens the back door of her car and there was a 2-3 year old baby sitting in its carriage and crying and another girl in her teens looking helplessly at me. The lady continued that her house is a couple of hours drive away and the baby needs to be fed and changed. She asked for money to buy diapers and milk for the baby.
Coming from Bombay, where you run into street urchins asking for money; I have developed a thick skin and don't relent easily. But in this case, the baby who was all soiled in her diapers, hungry for milk and hot in the sun, melted by heart.
I didnt want to simply give money and walk out (I didnt have enough cash on me, is another story). I wanted to make sure. There was a store, Albertsons in the same block, I offered that she could come in with me and buy what she needed for her baby. She instructed her little girl to go with me while she waited outside in her majestic car. We picked the diapers and some bottled milk and I paid with my credit card. I walked the girl back to her car, the lady thanked me and asked if I could also help put gas in her car as her house was couple of hundred miles away and had less than a quarter tank. She promised to repay back, by sending out a cheque or money order.
I gave in, and drove with her to the nearby gas station, helped her fill half a tank. She asked for my address and telephone number. I am somehow not too comfortable giving my cell number to strangers, so address was a little far fetched but it wasnt a paltry sum to let go as charity. I asked for her name, address and contact number and only after that I disclosed my office address and telephone number :)
She dropped me back to my car and promised to call me back once she reached home. I felt a satisfaction within of having helped a needy person. Reached office to a fuming boss who was fretting that I took forever for lunch.
Well hours went by, when I reached home and was changing my work clothes, I found the piece of paper in my pocket that had her number and address. She had not yet called and I started to worry if all was fine.
I decided to call her up to check. Changed my phone settings not to display caller id and dialed. No one answered. Now I didnt know what to think of it. I opened yahoo maps and typed in her address and it returned "street not found". Google maps gave the same answer. Retried her number. I started growing restless. I wanted to confirm my doubts. After several tries one old man answered. I asked for this lady and he replied Wrong number and kept the phone.

Here I am yours truly, naive and innocent, decided to do a noble cause but there aint any goodness left in this world.

Sunday, October 23, 2005

75 Questions

Received this in email from my co-worker. I decided to answer it on my blog. It surely is a good exercise for self reflection and also helped me pass time when I am in such a contemplative mood this sunday evening.

75 Questions

1. Gum: Fusen gum in India and now it is Wrigleys
2. Restaurant: The Cheesecake Factory
3. Drink: Regular Coke
4. Season: Summer
5. Type of weather: Warm
6. Emotion: Frustrated and anxious
7. Thing to do on a half day: nap, watch some tv
8. Late-night activity: internet browsing
9. Sport: Running, Swimming and watching Tennis
10. State: California
11. Store: Walmart for groceries, Abercrombie, GAP, Old Navy

When was the last time you.....
12. cried: Yesterday evening
13. played a sport: Ran on the threadmill on Thursday
14. laughed: Last night, at the pub, this visiting tv presenter from Ireland, spots me standing by myself, walks up to me cracks a joke and lightens up my depressed self
15. hugged someone: Jhaddo ki Jhappi to the tv presenter when we parted
16. kissed someone: Followed by a kiss...on the cheeks...lol...
17. felt depressed: Last couple of weeks
18. felt overworked: April, May
19. faked sick: 12th September
20. lied: AHAHA....last night...

What was the last....
21. word you said: Apne..I was humming "Aashiq banaya apne..."
22. thing you ate: An apple
23. song you listened to: Aashiq banaya aapne
24. thing you drank: Tea
25. place you went to: Grocery store
26. movie you saw: American Fish In Indian Water (Pretty Decent ABCD flick)
27. movie you rented: Million Dollar Baby

Who was the last person you...
28. had a sleepover with: My friend B, stayed back at his place after we got back late from Dandia, 2 weekends back
29. called: H, he was busy working
30. went to a movie with: C, star wars...pretty much watch movies on dvd or download them
31. saw: i live alone..lol...
32. were angry with: my boss

Have you ever...
33. danced in the rain: Yes
34. kissed someone: Yes
35. done drugs: No
36. drank alcohol: Yes
37. partied 'til the sun came up: Yes
38. had a movie marathon: Yes
39. gone too far on a dare: No
40. spun until you were immensely dizzy: Yes when I was a kid
41. taken a survey quite like this before: No...very long dammit

My life...
42. name: Parth Anand
43. gender: Male
44. birthday: April 9, 1980
45. relationship status: Single
46. nationality: Indian
47. occupation: Computer Engineer

Love...
48. love is: understanding each others views
49. love or lust: time and place for each or both
50. best love song: Can't think of an all time favorite, but Tu Jahan from Salaam Namaste hits a chord
51. is it possible to be in love w/ more than one person at the same time: cant say for sure, never been experienced....guess thats the excuse two timers give
52. when love hurts, i...: I try to move on
53. is there such thing as love @ first sight?: No..its lust at first sight

Opposite sex (or same sex)...
54. turn ons: Smile, Personality
55. turn offs: Bad Breath
56. do your parent's opinion on your gf/bf matter to you?: Yes
57. what kinda hairstyle are you into?: Whatever suits the face, but the hair should smell good
58. what is the sweetest thing a girl/guy can do for you?: Know what I like.
59. Are you the type of person to HOLLA and ask for numbers?: No

Picky picky...
60. dog or cat: dog...but really neither
61. short or long hair: short to medium
62. sunshine or rain: sun
63. hugs or kisses: both
64. summer or winter: summer
65. written letters or e-mails: e-mails
66. car or motorcycle: car
67. house party or club: Club Party.
68. sing or dance: In the bathroom..sing...cant dance there..though I have tried and fallen and sprained myself elsewhere both
69. freak or slow dance: I prefer the slow dance.

Lately...
70. How are you today: Oh God! Weekend is almost over
71. what pants are you wearing right now?: Blue PJs
72. what shirt are you wearing right now? Blue T shirt
73. what does your hair look like at the moment: uncombed.
74. how is the weather right now? Tolerable
75. What did you have for Lunch/Dinner: Mutter Panner and Roti

I would appreciate if you could take this survey too, why should I face the tortue alone? Well its not that, it throws more light about you and your personality. Copy paste that portion of the blog and replace my answers with yours. Trust me it wont take too much of your time.

If others don't but I would like if you guys do it :)
1.Vikster
2.Sayesha
3.Virdee
4.Arun
5.Vikram


Friday, October 21, 2005

Coldstone

When it comes to ice-cream, the calorie conscious, diet watching mind of mine catches a quick wink. The strict instructions of the gym trainer simply go for a toss. I simply love eating icecreams and at any time of the day.
Recall those days in Bombay when often after dinner, my sweet tooth would lead me to stalk the suburban icecream parlors; Naturals and Gokul. The man selling kulfi opposite Hongkong Bank in Bandra would be heaving a sigh of relief.As, now I am seven seas away to terrorize and chide at him if he is short of the mango and plain kulfi and didnt save them for me.
Could relate to the craving Preity Zinta had; in the not so great flick; for Ben and Jerry belgian choclate icecream (hell no..i am not pregnant) and with he paune barah baje ghar se chale song only that extent..the fact she was 7 months pregnant and dancing with that gut was indigestable..well
I am not being paid for promoting it..but even if they don't, I simply can't stop praising Coldstone Creamery.
It is one of the best ice-creams I have had in US. Being a connoisseur of icecreams, you should take my word for it and if you have a store near you, just run for it now.
Today was simply a boring day, nothing seemed to fall in its place.
Stopped the morning alarm, thought of catching 5 more minutes of sleep and finally when I opened my eyes it was already the time when I am usually sipping my morning coffee in office.
Had to skip bath, thanked the inventor of deodrant as I sprayed half a bottle on myself; changed and hit the road. Needless to say there was a traffic jam awaiting me 3 blocks down the road.
Reached office to an email of the tasks to be done for the day, which would take any ordinary person almost a week. Yippie my manager thinks I am superhuman!!
Needed coffee but we were out of creamers in office and the person incharge of office supplies was on leave and it would be replenished only on Monday now. Noticed some generous soul had volunteered and got Starbucks for most of the staff but I was late to miss the offering. Felt crappy through the rest of the day trying to complete the herculean task set forth. Could manage to complete it partially; which means I will have to ruin my weekend.
Frustrated and irritated I was driving back home; had to take a longer route due to construction work on the usual road; thats when I noticed something and all my worries and irritation vanished into thin air.
Yes you guessed it correct, a coldstone icecream parlour. Pampered myself with a strawberry shortcake serenade.
That was the only saving grace of a crappy Friday. Thank god for small mercies and coldstone!

Thursday, October 20, 2005

Wedding Season

"So your son has a job now, you should start finding a match for him, you know my brother's wife's aunt's sisters daughter is pretty and looking..if you want I can take this further"

It doesn't take time for your "vampish" aunts to plant the seed in your mom's mind and make her realize that now the time is ripe for her dreams of an ideal daughter-in-law to turn into reality. Thus begins the tensions in your parents life to get their son settled. To add more to their worries your friends are getting married soon.
So now it is more like a rat race that you find yourself thrown into."Lalitaji...aapke bete ki shaadi mere bete se pehle kaise."

Hiding in Bush's land keeps you away from meeting the brigade of girls shortlisted by your folks till you set your foot in Swades.
Well I take it back, not if you are a Gujju. With a battalion of them settled overseas, you are bound to receive contacts from your parents of millions of girls in Si-cago (Chicago) and all over to initiate the dating process. There is no escapism.

On another front..news of every Sita, Gita, Mita or every Ram, Shaam and whoever you knew in college is getting married keeps pouring in...and then you hear it is a love marriage. Those geeky nerdy studious beings...always sitting on the front bench who spoke of nothing but exams and assignments apparently have found their match...

The Johars and Chopras of cinema instill in you a faith that someone somewhere is made for you and you will surely find him/her at the appropriate time...

Also recall two quotes on marriages...
"Men marry women with the hope they will never change. Women marry men with the hope they will change. Invariably they are both disappointed."- Albert Einstein
"Marriage is like pi - natural, irrational, and very important."

Can only leave it to time to reveal..whats in store for thou.

Worth a chuckle...

Wednesday, October 19, 2005

Timing

Call it timing or your ill-luck or the world turning against you but
Why Does it happen that....

1. Your boss walks into your cubicle just when you are doing something else...Chatting on IM, reading news, replying to non-work related email.
(You are sure to hear him fume about it sometime soon..probably the next performance review)
2. The buses are running late only on those days when you are on time and need to get to a place quickly.
(Worse still...it runs into traffic jams enroute....uggggggghhhhh...you are helpless...)

3. It rains on those days when you are not carrying your umbrella.
(Told you..even the rain gods are against you)

4. The day you forget your cell-phone at home is when most people try to contact you. You reach home to several missed calls. ( and swearing on your voice mail that you have now started avoiding them...)

5. The days you are late to work are the ones when someone or the other in office would be needing you and would have noticed that you were not on time. (Damn...think of an excuse quick...)

6. Your favorite movie is going to be shown on TV only when you already have some other plans for that day.

7. Your phone rings/mom calls just when the movie reaches an interesting stage.

8. You run into people at the grocery store, on the road only when you are dressed up shabbily.

9. Your bf/gf is always running late when you are waiting for them at the movie theatres. (and you end up missing your favorite ads and the beginning)

10. Your friend calls in to tell you that the pricey laptop/camera/IPOD you purchased last week is available for much cheaper this week.

11. You notice typos/grammatical errors in emails only after you have sent them out.

12. The phone call/email that you have been waiting for so very anxiously comes only when you give up it. (thank goodness it came nevertheless...)

13. You feel the urge to know what time it is, more; look at your wrist atleast a 100 times on days when you forget wearing a wrist watch.

Tuesday, October 18, 2005

Before you Ask.....
1. Who am I?
A 25 year old from Bombay, India now working in Southern California, US.

2. Little more about me?
Simple and sincere. Love watching movies, listening to music, surfing the web, eating out when ever I get time

3. Why Blog?
I have been blog-reading for months now. It is interesting to learn about the diverse happenings and experiences in people's life. I believe with my blog, I will be able to connect to other bloggers. Make more friends across the globe.

4. Why not use Orkut, Friendster, Hi5 for networking then?
Apart from networking this also gives me a platform to share my thoughts and views, vent out when need be.

5. ArienTraits? Spotlight? huh?
My zodiac sign is Aries, so it is but obvious that there would be some arien traits in my posts and hence the blog URL. This blog would be used to put yours, mine, our life into spotlight....dont shy away now ;)


With this..I extend my hand of friendship...Mujhse Dosti Karoge?

(I thought this introductory post was essential for you to know a little about me. You will definitely learn more from my posts...)

Today's Fortune Cookie from lunch at PF chang's said "Be Patient. Good thing comes to those who wait"

Got to mention this...My boss told me about the californian style of reading fortune cookies when we first went out to eat in a chinese restaurant. You simply append a "in bed" to what your cookies says..

Try this with your cookie the next time...On this note.. See you around!